Your Soul Urge is 2

your Soul Urge of 2 ...

What You Desire To Be, To Have, and To Do In Your Life

Your soul urge is to be admired and loved by all. You have an enormous faith in other people and if they do let you down you tend to behave, as it is the end of the world. One of your soul challenges is to realize that only God is perfect and others are not god-like in their actions.

You have a deep compulsive need to connect with others and if this does not happen, your personality will distort itself in all kinds of ways in order to get approval. This means that you often will put yourself in the position of being a doormat. Twos often demonstrate their submissiveness and loyalty very early on in a relationship. Unfortunately it is only human nature for others to simply take advantage of that.

You take everything that happens very personally. You often have a strong idea of what constitutes loyalty to you in your mind and it does not take much for you to feel betrayed by another. Another one of your challenges is to recognize that other people are allowed to change their minds and don't necessarily have to be a slave to your point of view in order to be your friend.

If someone rejects you romantically, it is not long before your passion turns to hate and thoughts of revenge. This is because you are very much ruled by your emotions and not your mind. Your deep seated need to be desired and loved can not only lead to obsession, but it can also send you into disassociated states where you refuse to admit to yourself that a relationship is not working. Remember that it takes more courage to end a bad relationship than it does to stay in it.

Others may not respect you because you seem to have so little respect for yourself. This is because in your eagerness to help or be important to others you often overlook your own appearance or self care. It helps to remember the rule that before you can help anyone else you need to help yourself first.

As you are generally humbled by so many bad experiences you may need a little help with your self-esteem. Choosing a hobby or a craft that you do very well and attempting to excel at it can help you in this department.

As you are very sympathetic you also feel a deep compulsion to fix other peoples lives or make it all better. You often do this behind the person's back for his or her own good. The problem with this approach is that it earns you a reputation as a busybody or a meddler.

Part of your soul urge is to find your soul mate. Often number twos are in such a hurry to be blessed in this manner they will try to transform an obviously unsuitable partner into the man or woman of their dreams. Then they are badly let down when the person's actions shatter their carefully constructed illusions.

Twos also don't feel complete unless they have found the "other" in their life. This is an attitude that often limits their choices and sabotages their freedom. They decide that they won't be happy until their better half appears. This self-indulgent approach often leads to a life of emotional dissatisfaction and misery. Ironically, once you resolve to be happy whether you are in a relationship or not your astral vibration is increased to the extent that you attract your soul mate immediately.